My Fox, New York Times

With shock and grief clutching Borough Park in Brooklyn, thousands of mourners and residents poured into a neighborhood courtyard Wednesday evening for the funeral of an 8-year-old Brooklyn boy who was abducted and killed this week as he walked home from camp.

Thousands Mourn at Funeral for Leiby Kletzky

My Fox, New York Times

With shock and grief clutching Borough Park in Brooklyn, thousands of mourners and residents poured into a neighborhood courtyard Wednesday evening for the funeral of an 8-year-old Brooklyn boy who was abducted and killed this week as he walked home from camp.

The funeral for the boy, which was held entirely in Yiddish, swelled to capacity before its scheduled start time at 8:30, prompting many of the thousands who could not get in to gather behind police barricades, crowding neighborhood streets as they waited to pay their respects to the young boy, Leiby Kletzky, whose remains were discovered earlier in the day. Throngs of police officers and members of a local security patrol group, the shomrim, kept order as a steady stream of visitors poured into the courtyard, adjacent to a school between 16th and 17th Avenues, within two blocks of where the boy lived. One shomrim volunteer estimated that close to 8,000 people were in attendance.

“We need to separate like the Red Sea so the family can get through,” one officer announced.

Inside, a large gathering of mourners in Orthodox and traditional modest dress — men and women separated as per custom — clutched leather-bound prayer books and chanted, some in tears, others stoic. Two elderly women known for their charity work passed around tins for donations, or tzedakah. Bottles of water and boxes of tissues were passed through the audience. Upfront, the women in Leiby’s family sat together, their heads covered in scarves and their faces etched with grief.

The service began shortly before 10 p.m., and was marked by a speech from the boy’s father, whose voice shook as he stood before the crowd and addressed his dead son, saying in Yiddish that he was lucky to have had him, if only for nine years.

“Thank God we had him,” he said, according to a translator.

And then, overcome by emotion, he went silent. A moment later the principal of Leiby’s school spoke.

“He got lost, he got lost,” he said, according to the translator. “There’s nothing to say, he got lost. God wanted it.” Several rabbis also spoke in Yiddish through intermittent tears, repeatedly breaking down. They extolled the boy’s good qualities, and reminded the community to be careful, urging the adults to protect their children. At one point the rabbi of the synagogue that Leiby attended recalled the boy’s devotion to his studies.

“He was such a good learner,” the rabbi said, according to a translation. “He used to pray all day. It was a pleasure to have him in the class. We’re not the boss. Everything is as God wanted it.”

The funeral came only hours after the family learned the news that their search for Leiby, who disappeared on Monday, had come to a devastating end. According to investigators, the boy — who would have turned 9 this month — was on his way to meet his parents after leaving the Nechmod Day Camp, at the Yeshiva Boyan at 1205 44th Street, on Monday afternoon when he got lost and asked for directions. His parents reported him missing, and surveillance footage later showed him in the company of a man the police identified as Levi Aron, 35, a local supply store clerk. The police said Mr. Aron took Leiby to his home, killed him, and cut up his body, parts of which were found in a refrigerator-freezer in Mr. Aron’s tiny attic apartment, less than two miles from the Kletzky home. He was charged Wednesday night with second degree murder. The news devastated the tight-knit community of Borough Park, where residents had raised reward money for Leiby’s return and formed search parties, scouring the streets in the days he was missing.

“We feel like we lost one of our own,” said Leah Rosenberg, a resident who showed up at the funeral. “He was everybody’s child. There was a pregnant woman dismembered in this neighborhood about 20 years ago. This brings it all back. It’s like ripping open an old wound. It’s a new pain and an old pain.

“Our hearts convey our condolences,” she added, before bursting into tears.

Some of those in attendance said they had viewed their community as relatively safe, and noted that a certain level of trust that had been implicit had suddenly been destroyed.

“I don’t even know the family, but I feel like it’s a community tragedy,” said Claire Wercberger, 54, a nursery school teacher who attended the funeral. “I’m devastated, horrified. There are no words. To say it’s a nightmare is an understatement. Everybody is heartbroken. It’s an unbelievable situation. It makes me much more on guard as a teacher and as a community member.”

5 Comments

  • hurting as a parent

    I just came back from the Levaya after midnight. There must have been about 15,000 people there….hespedim were very moving.

    I saw the car with Mrs. Kretzky in, but I couldn’t see her. The aron was in another car I believe…I’m glad I didn’t see it. Some things are just too terrible to witness.

    Mr. Kretzky was walking next to the aron surrounded by people. It was a crush at that point.

    I don’t know where Kvura will be, but wherever it is it’s going to be late. It was surreal…to hear the hespedim & to be a part of such a terrible thing, without knowing the child but just being a parent & grandparent was bad enough. But the mind runs rampant as you imagine this monster doing the things he did to a pure and innocent child.

    On the way back we were talking. There has to be an end to this complicity of silence. There are “respected” people here in this community who have molested children. The days are over where we are afraid of being accused of meseira for reporting these crimes. If we can run to Court to get financial revenge or to try to get 6 community activists thrown in jail, surely we can go to the police to report such heinous acts?

    The Psak of this weekend was prescient: who would know such a terrible event would occur? But it did & some good has to come out of this – I call it “Leiby’s Law.” By this I mean that support must be given from the Rabbonim down to families & individuals who report cases of molestation. Our Yeshivas need to be trained to deal with pedophilia, because it does exist, make no mistake about it. Victims need to be given as much support as they need & that includes real, professional counseling & the expenses that it entails.

    Protecting our children is a community issue. Parents can’t be there every second, so they rely on us to watch their kids as well.

    The next time you see a child alone & crying, or something seems “off”, go up to him/her. Ask the child where mommy is. Don’t just walk away & say Not My Business.

    The next child to be abused may be yours, chas v’sholom.

  • Israelli Ima

    couldn’t stop thinking of him, of his mother, of the fact that our G-d was there too. What a ניסיון in faith. beyond tears, words, there could be only one thing we can ask to heal: משיח

  • margaret leverton

    We need to give our children some sort of siman so that if anyone approaches them,whom they do not know,they can ask for a sure sign that their parent has given the stranger a true message from them;otherwise,run away to a house or shop seeking help and a chance to phone the parent.

  • Anonymous

    I will be clipping 1:58 to 2:05 and replay it over and over to myself, “We don’t have to rationalize God’s plan; God is our father, God is our king, he knows best whats good for us”

  • Practical Advice to tell your Children

    Well I like a lady that gave practical advice in a different forum that when your child is lost they should first try to approach a lady with kids,if not a lady, if not a man with kids, if not a police man, if not a man.
    BUT….any person you ask, ask to use their phone call home and/911. Don’t go near any car unless it is a police car or your parents’ car. If this person wants to give directions fine but do not walk with them.