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Video: The Five Love Languages

When the romance has petered out, these 5 Love Languages are essential to maintain the G-dly connection between 2 souls.

Seeing the decline in good marriages and the intense struggles experienced by couples, Rabbi Avraham and Goldie Plotkin use their expertise in counseling and their own long marriage to become marriage counselors. They are ready to share these 5 secrets to a good marriage that they have mined from the Torah.

Besides the excellent content of the video, just watching how they interact with each other in the process of giving this lecture is very instructive.

This presentation was given at the National Jewish Retreat for more information, visit JRetreat.com

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8 Comments

  • Listen and DO!

    Every HUSBAND should listen to this! Download it etc. do whatever it takes. Being that women are more giving by nature it is so much more IMPORTANT for the MEN to listen to this and put the ideas into ACTION! You will have a much happier and productive life! ALL MARRIED MEN ! THE SMART ONES WILL LISTEN, THE DUMB ONES WON’T.

    • C.H.

      If this is what you took away from this then I feel really bad for your husband.

      I’m a husband and I listened/watched this. I didn’t think afterwards, “maybe my wife should watch this so she can better serve me”.

      I did however think…
      1) Baroch Hashem were doing good with most of the issues they are discussing.
      But like they say, if good is good, is better not better? There is always room for improvement.

      Each partner, after watching this must make his own Chesbon Nefesh as to where they need improvement.
      You must ask yourself where can I do better. Not, where can my HUSBAND/WIFE do better (for me).

      2) I should have watch this with my wife, together!

      Also have in mind that nobody can change or improve over night (or by watching a video on marriage). Marriage is a work in progress which take two people to work on.

      Don’t use the advice given above to “get you partner”. Don’t use it to prove that your right and he/she is wrong. That would defeat the whole purpose. Life is not a book.

  • A FAN AGAIN

    Better yet, the Plotkins should produce a series of marriage CD’s/videos and all chasanim and kallahs should be required to listen/view them! This will help boost the strength of our children’s marriages and our own!

  • beautiful

    I never listen to these kind of talks but was bored and decided to randomly click it. I thought Id for sure close after 3 minutes but i ended up listening to the entire thing!! Beautiful words!

  • chaya

    Can’t find the live video.can u post it on crownheights.info please.or give specifics how to locate it