Weekly Story: The Greatest Comeback

by Rabbi Sholom DovBer Avtzon

One year our friend Yaakov received a phone call, Yisroel, his best friend for many years was calling to inform him that he finally found his bashert, a wonderful lady and the chassunah is going to take place sometime later in the year.

Yaakov wished Yisroel mazal tov and told him, ‘Nothing will prevent me from attending your wedding. Not even a blizzard. We waited so long for this wonderful day, count me in. And of course if I can help you in any way, please call, it would be my pleasure.”

Some time passed and the invitation arrived. Yaakov eagerly opened it and seeing that the wedding was taking place in a hall that is not even two miles away from his house, he asked his wife to please circle the day on their calendar. I am so happy for him, he is such a wonderful person, there is no way I can miss it.

The weeks pass by and then Yaakov is looking at the calendar and is horrified as he realizes; his best friend did the unthinkable; the wedding date is the evening of the Super Bowl, and this year their home team is in it.

Now Yaakov was one of millions of people that just had to see the biggest sporting event of the year. Sometimes he even managed to obtain those coveted tickets, while other times he had to suffice watching it with a group of his close friends. Yes, for so many, the Super Bowl is an event not to be missed.

Momentarily he is torn, what should he do? Obviously he has to be by the wedding, but does he have to be there the entire time? Perhaps it would be enough to be there from the very beginning, until after the first dance and then he can at least watch the second half.

On the other hand, whenever he was in a crunch, Yisroel was always available for him, no matter what time of the day or night it was. Was it right or decent to walk away from his friend’s happiness in order to watch the game? Is that more important than a friendship? Or does this inner conflict reflect his true colors, that he is a friend that can’t be counted on. Is he going to be like some other “friends” that are making up excuses that they are out of town that day or something else?

For a few days, Yaakov was confused, until he concluded; no matter what I must be by the entire wedding, from beginning until the end. I can’t disappoint Yisroel on the happiest day of his life. So I have no choice but to record it and watch it afterwards. This way I will see and enjoy all the great plays.

Sure enough Yaakov came early for the kabbalas ponim (reception) and chuppa, and really danced the entire time, he truly rejoiced in his friends happiness. How happy he was for him. After bentching and sheva brochos, Yaakov hugged his best friend once again, wished him mazal tov and entered his car. Turning on to the radio he hears the reporter hoarsely shout, “This was the greatest comeback victory in Super Bowl history.

The — did the unbelievable, they were down by twenty-one points in the final quarter and then had a run of twenty four unanswered points! What a comeback! What an awesome win. Our team did it. WE WON! WE ARE THE CHAMPIONS!!!

Yaakov was ecstatic, his team did it. They were the underdogs, most sports writers wrote them off, but they pulled it out. Unbelievable, but true. He is now going to watch and enjoy the entire game.

He sat down on the coach nonchalantly and took out his smart phone, to do some chores and catch up on the latest news, while looking occasionally at the screen. His wife noticed this and asked him, “Yaakov, why is this year so different than every other year? Normally you so tense during the game. You sit on the edge of the chair and request of me to make sure no one disturbs you. You turn off your phone and every time the opponent scores you groan in distress, and when your team loses the ball by an interception or fumble, you shout in anguish. Then when your team scores or takes away the ball from the opponent,  you become ecstatic and electrified, but now you are sitting comfortably smiling the entire time.

Even now that your team is behind by two touchdowns, you are smiling, as if this pleases you. What happened?

Yaakov replied with a large grin and said to his wife. Normally I don’t know what is going to happen, and yes I am tense and do everything you mentioned. However, as I was driving home, I heard that we won. So what does it matter if the quarterback and the entire team initially had a real lousy day. Who cares if we are behind by fourteen points or in fact it is going to be twenty one points, since we are going to win.

So the setbacks don’t upset or derail me, we are ultimately winning.


Dear reader, I heard this moshol (parable) from mashpiim, many years ago, to explain why Yaakov avinu desired to inform his children and descendants when Moshiach is coming. He was telling them, “Yes you are going to experience extremely hard and difficult situations, but you are going to persevere and overcome it. Yes it is going to be an astonishing comeback victory. Such a minute amount of people are going to help the entire world of billions and billions of people to come to the realization that there is only one true G-d. What a celebration that is going to be.”

The same thing is by us chassidim; In his first maamar, the Rebbe informed us that we are the seventh generation. Just as Hashem’s glory came down by mattan Torah as Moshe Rabeinu was the seventh generation from avrohom avinu, we too are the seventh generation from the Alter Rebbe and Moshiach is definitely going to come in our days.

So yes fellow chassidim, we are indeed facing many challenges, some harder than others and some people can become disillusioned and think, we are so far behind, it is a lost cause. But just like the husband who sat there calmly even as his team was falling further and further behind, because he knew the outcome, he knew at the end he is on the winning team. We too were informed of the outcome that Moshiach is coming in our days. So, we cannot allow the setbacks to discourage us, they are only temporary. Rather let us strengthen ourselves and finish off those final sparks that have to be polished and may we all merit the coming of Moshiach , NOW!

Rabbi Avtzon is a veteran mechanech in the United Lubavitch Yeshiva, Ocean Parkway, and the author of numerous books, including the acclaimed Rebbeim Biography Series and the Early Chassidic Personalities Series. He is available to farbreng in your community and can be reached  at avtzonbooks@gmail.com


  • 1. K wrote:

    Moshol and nimshal fails to connect.

    Yaakov wanting to reavel “the ketz” (-WHEN Moshiach will arrive).

    Yaakov was NOT merely going to tell his children that they will “persevere and overcome” the long hard golus (that they will “win” the “game”).

    Rather, he was to tell them WHEN Moshiach will arrive (how LONG they must persevere and suffer in golus).

    What does this, Yaakov desire to reveal the ketz, have to do with the moshol??!!

    • 2. Sholom Avtzon wrote:

      There are two aspects in revealing the ketz. One is as you stated giving us the actual date and that he was not permitted to say.
      however the fact that we are informed that he wanted to inform us was revealed and that is the similarity.

    • 3. K wrote:

      Are you saying he revealed to them that there IS a ketz?

      Without which they would not have known that a ketz will eventually arrive?

      That makes NO SENSE AT ALL since believing in the Ketz is one of the 13 Ikrim of our Emmunah.

      Besides, the golus that they were experiencing: golus mitzrayim (which the 400 years began at Yitzchok’s birth) included a ketz of 400 years and the promise of leaving that golus with great wealth (physical and spiritual).

  • 4. Sholom Avtzon wrote:

    I replied that Yakov wanted to reveal the time of the keitz. And that he was not allowed to reveal.
    However the fact that we are informed that he wanted to reveal it to us gives us sustenance to stand strong even in times of difficulty.

    So yes believing in it is one of the ikrim. However, Yaakov lived some years before the Rambam wrote the 13 principles of faith.

    • 5. K wrote:

      Do you think the Rambam “invented” the ikrim of emunah?! That before the Rambam, no one knew of the concepts?! Do you think Avrohom Avinu did not know about moshiach?! Are you saying that Yaakov was “mechadesh” to the shevatim that “we will win this superbowl game/golus war” and one day moshiach will come?! It simply makes NO sense.

  • 6. K wrote:

    Do mashpiim really talk about the Superbowl?! I cannot imagine a Mashgiach giving a shmuz and even mentioning the Superbowl!

    • 7. Toshav Hashchuna wrote:

      A farbrengen with mashpiim is nothing like a shmooz from a mashgiach! That is like comparing apples to orange juice. A Jew needs to bring kedusha even to the Superbowl.

  • 8. chosid wrote:

    Hey Reb K, if you say lchayim 3 or 4 times, it will make sense. A custodians mayse needs a few lchayim to make it understood.

    • 9. K wrote:

      “A custodians mayse needs a few lchayim to make it understood.”

      You mean “A chassidishe mayseh…”

      (Please have trouble typing after a few l’chaims).


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