From the inbox: Rabbi Bentzion Elisha writes of the horror of being awakened on a Friday night, and being informed that his 2-year-old son went missing, and was found by a volunteer in Shomrim. At 4:00am.
Op-Ed: Thank You Shomrim!
From the inbox: Rabbi Bentzion Elisha writes of the horror of being awakened on a Friday night, and being informed that his 2-year-old son went missing, and was found by a volunteer in Shomrim. At 4:00am.
An open letter of gratitude:
Laying in bed, fast asleep late Friday night I hear a mans voice in our Crown Heights apartment.
Drifting between sleep and consciousness I think I’m dreaming.
I’m hoping I’m dreaming.
It’s just my wife, our kids and me, or so I thought.
But the voice grew stronger, waking me up.
I get up and quietly and walk towards the noise.
Suddenly I hear him again.
‘Elisha, Elisha…’ The unexpected voice didn’t sound threatening at all.
‘Elisha, your son…’ Hearing my son being mentioned, whatever fear I might have had dispersed and I walked to the front door which was wide open.
‘Elisha, your son was outside by the street.’ The man informs me. He was standing there with my landlord who was in his pajamas.
‘What do you mean?’ I ask him dumbfounded, ‘Our 2 year old son is sleeping.’
‘Elisha, your son was outside on the street. He must have opened the doors and gotten out.’
I’m completely stunned . ’ Is he ok? Where is he?’ I ask, timid of an answer.
‘Your son is fine, he is in your apartment already.’ The nice man reassures me.
At that moment I look for my son and see him walking with a bottle as if nothing happened in the hallway.
Our baby is fine! Thank you Hashem.
‘How did you find him? What time is it? ” I ask, shocked, shaken and physically shaking.
‘I’m from Shomrim. I was on my patrol and I saw your son by the street on the sidewalk at approx. 4 in the morning. It’s after 4am now.’ He tells me with an expressive face. My glance drops to the walkie-talkie hanging off his belt. I had no idea anybody was protecting the neighborhood at such late hours in general and on Shabbos in particular. I’m taken aback.
‘You might want to double lock your doors from now on.’ He warns me.
‘Your two year old opened all the doors to the outside, Be very careful.’
‘Good Shabbos’ He tells me as he goes back outside to continue his patrol.
‘Thank you so much. Good Shabbos’ I tell both the Shomer and my landlord who kindly opened the door which is locked to the outside, for my son and the man from Shomrim.
After they left, both my wife and I just couldn’t stop kissing our beloved little baby boy, afraid to entertain any thought whatsoever as to what could’ve been, G-d forbid, in the dark street.
We place him on the bed and hug him nonstop.
‘We love you.’ We tell him again and again.
We are utterly unnerved.
My heart is pounding.
As he falls asleep safe in his bed we talk about this bizarre circumstance.
‘How could this have happened? How could he open all three doors to the outside.’ I wondered.
‘He was looking for me.’ My wife stated simply .’Around this time of night he always wakes up and comes to my bed. Tonight I fell asleep in the girls room and since he didn’t see me in my bed, he went searching for me.’
‘That doesn’t make sense. Why would he open the doors and go outside?’ I asked.
‘Well it kind of happened before. One time I left him in front of the computer to watch a DVD
While I went downstairs to get the girls from the school bus. I left the door open just a crack in case he wanted to come down. I guess he got sick of the video and he walked down and saw us just as the girls came from the bus. I opened the door for him downstairs so that he could be outside with us. He probably thought we were downstairs just like last time, however, I had no idea he was capable of opening doors like these. If I learned one lesson from this is to never underestimate what a child can do, even a toddler!’
As I was contemplating my wife’s theory she continued incredulously..
‘It’s so bizarre, just a couple of days ago I a friend of mine was telling me that she made a certain mistake with her kids supervision and now she looks at her kids with a whole new level of appreciation and sees Hashems Hashgach in a revealed way like never before. That friend told that a toddler of a friend of hers crossed Eastern Parkway by themselves by mistake and I immediately judged the mother thinking how could a mother let such a thing happen, and here it just happened to me!’.
‘I had no idea that someone is patrolling Crown Heights at 4am. Isn’t that completely incredible?!’ I ask my wife. ‘ What an amazing Hashgacha Pratis!’ I declare. ‘From the entire area in Crown Heights, which is pretty big, for this Shomrim member to just happen to walk by our son and literally saving him is very extraordinary.
The whole Shabbos we couldn’t stop kissing our son and were extremely appreciative of this special miracle that happened to us.
We are infinitely grateful of the incredible protection that Hashem send us in the form of an angel from Shomrim, who selflessly was strolling in the wee hours of Shabbos night while the majority of Crown Heights were fast asleep (except for our two year old son!)
Thank you Hashem.
Thank you Shomrim.
Thank you Yossi Fraenkel (The musician, JewishSinger.com) the angel that saved our son.
Rabbi Bentzion Elisha and Family
Sara
B”H!!!!! Thank you Shomrim!!! May you and your families always be blessed with only revealed good!!!
me
wow amazing stuff go shomrim!
HP
WOW – that’s insanity. Imagine Shomrim were not up at that hour, who knows what would be with that child.
Thank You shomrim for protecting our community!
erachel
wow-thank you shomrim-this is very special and very important so that everyone can see and hear the important work of our wonderful ch shomrim
an easy fast for everyone and moshiach now
s m
Yossi Fraenkel is one of the bet shomrim member
yossi fan
way to go yossi
B--A
BLI AYIN HARAH to all that everyone said. and thank you shomrim!
the lesson
guys this should teach you to lock your doors tightly!!!!!
anonymous
we have child safety thingies on our doorknobs so our little ones can stay safely inside. look into this product, you can find them at babies-r-us and i think it’s made by “safety first.”
Suggestion for parents!
When my son was about 3 years old he walked outside and we found him a few blocks away. That day we called a locksmith and had him change our doorknob to a higher position on the door so my son would not be able to reach it. He is my youngest but now it is working for my grandchildren B”H. Better safe then sorry! Happy to hear that your son is BH okay. Yossi Frankel thank you for all the great work that you do.
B H
Please take the time with the hugs and kisses to speak with your child about never doing that again, even at his young age you began to teach.
i had a similar story but the angel was.
it happened to me too!!
my son was 2 year old at the time it happened. i registered him at the day care center. the first day i brought him there i sat with him and the morah told me to leave and come back in an hour,
on the way home i was hoping it will be ok… i got home had the time to do the dishes while doing the dishes i was imaginating him playing with blocks…
the time was over i went to pick him up before i could see him the morah asked me this strange questions…
what could she tell the mother of the boy that left the day care center???????? should she say something or should she keep it a secret????? i was confused……. i told her i think you should tell the mother for sure she needs to know whats happening with her son…………
everyone was passing by me and looking at me a strange way………. i turned to the morah and asked her“ the mother you have to tell is it me? did my son left the day care premises?????????????/
she tells me ”yes, i guess one of the therapist left and didn’t see a child behind her or she left and kept the door open…… you son left the day care center………walked to the main street
a goy, shvartze saw my son and brought him back to the day care center” he new there was a day care center and he figured out that the boy came from there!!!!!!!!!
i could have sue the day care but i didn’t i tried to find this goy men that gave me back my son………… for a week i couldn’t sleep checking if my son is in his bed……….. today my son is twelve and everytime i see him i know it’s a miracle that he is with us today and i am thankfull to hashem and to this angel that gave me back my son……………… we don’t like them they don’t like us.. but they are not all bad respect them they will respect you…….and even one day it could be one of them that will be the angel!!!!!:)