8:00pm: Is There Anything Wrong With Giving Chanukah Presents? Should Yichus Matter When It Comes to Shidduchim?

The topics in this week’s 381st episode of the highly acclaimed MyLife: Chassidus Applied series, with Rabbi Simon Jacobson, will include:

  • Chassidus applied to Chanukah
    • Why do the Chanukah lights endure, while the Temple Menorah did not?
    • Why do we light eight candles, at night, facing outside, unlike the Temple Menorah?
    • What does Chanukah teach us today?
    • What is the connection with us being lamplighters and Chanukah?
    • Is the oil of Chanukah related to Chassidus?
    • Why do we celebrate the zealotry of the Maccabees?
    • Is there anything wrong with giving Chanukah presents?
    • Is religion stopping frum Jews from contributing to society (a modern Hellenist claim)?   
  • Lessons from Miketz
    • Why did Joseph have to torment his brothers with an elaborate scheme and not just reunite with them and his father?
    • Can Pharoah’s dreams about the seven cows and seven stalks of wheat be interpreted to relate to the seven generations of Chabad and the subsequent time after Gimmel Tammuz?
    • Why did Joseph have to suffer so?
  • Should yichus matter when it comes to shidduchim? 
  • Do I need to donate to every crowdfunding campaign?
  • Sholom Bayis
    • How can I learn to respect my husband?
    • What should I do when I am feeling annoyed at my spouse’s behavior?  
    • When to let go and when to address an issue that bothers me in my marriage?
    • How do I deal with a spouse who has lost her faith?
  • Chassidus question: Please elaborate on the idea that each Rebbe added understanding to Chassidus corresponding to the sefiros: chochma, bina, daas etc.


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One Comment

  • Joanne

    I doubt that people looks only at the person itself for a Shidduch. People preach a lot but when it comes to their own children they look for someone with a yichus.